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Props! Thank u for being vulnerable enough to share this excerpt from your journey. I’ve been dealing with a similar and ungrounded attack on my character and it’s been heartbreaking. I’ve maintained sobre however, and mutually have turned to gratitude: the big reveal of who’s who - around me - has been a blessing. Now i REALLY know who’s in my corner….. and subsequently reminded I AM alllll I got. Nobody will take my last breath for me.. so between now and then… I have to do good work. What others think of me is none of my business. What IS my biz, is keeping MY water clean. ✌️✨ cheers !!!!

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Thank you for this. As I approached one year of sobriety, trust and other issues resurfaced that had been repaired, in my thinking. I love this essay so much. You can’t change people committed to their misunderstanding. Yes, a reminder to dig deeper. And remember who the fuck I am. You too!!

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A proper guide for being love in low-love situations. Someone has to heal for the healing to begin and your example of taking the high road says far more than words could ever say.

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Thank you so much for sharing with us ❤️ I hate that some people will act one way to your face and then be hell-bent on misunderstanding you and saying hurtful things behind your back. I’m glad this person made this mistake so you can make the right decisions for you. I hope you have been eating all the nourishing food and staying hydrated now that you are feeling defiant!

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I'm so glad you wrote this.. so many us resonate with this... we've got your back...

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